Frequently Asked Questions

  • Wear the coolest outfit you can come up with!

    Feel free to express yourself any way you like. If you think you look good — you’re right, and we love it! You can wear white — Mae’s not. No holding back your amazing sense of style because of old-school traditions. These are parties!

    So, anything you can imagine (that doesn’t create some kind of legal issue). We want you to celebrate with us and look your best doing it!

    If you want to wear what you wear to every other wedding… that’s fine too.

  • Sure! If we can do anything to make your child more comfortable, let us know ahead of time. Some music may contain explicit language, so bring earmuffs.

  • Come on, this is LA! (and 2020s Jersey City!) We’re happy to accommodate any dietary restrictions - just please let us know when you RSVP.

    There will be oat milk.

  • After living together for 10 years, we already have a lot of ~stuff~. So we’ll be setting up a honeymoon fund, and greatly appreciate any contributions to that. We also welcome any handmade/personally-created gifts! See "Registry/Gifts" page for details. We're already grateful that you even clicked on this.

  • We’d love to see you at both, but of course not. There’s no obligation to make a cross-country trip. You’ll be able to RSVP to LA, JC, or both.

  • Unfortunately, we aren’t able to invite everyone to both events, or accommodate guests not named on your invitation. Your save the date and invitation will indicate the reception that we thought would be easier for you to travel to.

    If we guessed wrong, feel free to email us and we can move you over to the other event’s guestlist!

  • Of course not! We invited you because we’d love to see you at our party. If you insist, we accept, but please don’t feel pressured. If you can’t make it, check our website after the wedding for some photos!

  • Please reach out to us at julesandmae@gmail.com. We can’t wait to read and respond to your infrequently-asked question!

  • The bell desk at the LINE Hotel can assist you with coat and bag check in Los Angeles.

    There will be a coat check booth at White Eagle Hall for our Jersey City reception.